The older i get, the more i realize that this is a self actualization journey. And if you never really extract the good ship that we all have inside of us, this is, aside from the relationship, marriage comn. Every single one of us has something in there but most people just don't want to squeeze it out because they don't want their friends on top of them. I think culture would do itself a favor by getving back tthat idea of, like, hey, a, you know, find some one you can build with,. not find someone who's, who's where you want to be.