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224. Get REAL Pleasure & Stop Faking It with Vanessa Marin

We Can Do Hard Things

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The Origins of Our Fantasies

If your partner touches you, you feel yourself tense up a lot or you're always kind of on guard when they're going to initiate, you might have low sex drive. This goes back to that enjoyment desire connection that we talked about in the earlier episodes. If your body has learned that sex is an unsafe, scary, painful, unwanted experience, why are you going to have a wild desire for that? Right? So those are just some of the many things that can come up. And there's more detail in that, in that course that I mentioned. But just being able to recognize like these things make sense. There's nothing wrong with me. It makes sense that I have these

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