The chapter explores preferences in dating, delving into the complexities of attraction and neutrality towards body types, highlighting the difference between preferences and bigotry. It discusses the clash of individual preferences in a subjectivist world and how liberal ideologies navigate the paradox of exalting preferences while condemning them if they differ from liberal views. Additionally, the chapter questions the rationality of labeling certain fears as irrational and explores how language like 'phobia' is used in societal discussions.