i think what you've really got to do is, first of all, acknowledge a lot of these things, right? And this is also wer light. Yes, i would, avlo say that, ecause i recently even talked to my friend about thiswe like, for some reason, i've sard realize aotothe things that make me feel uncomfortable is basically variable in things, when things are not set,. So let's unpack this little bit, ok. You don't want them to see anything that you're not prepared to show them. Now, this ties into a couple of different things. How can you learn to be happy with yourself if the only thing that