i almost want to like coach you and how to talk to them. So what i'm hearing is that, you know, your parents are fiercely proud, fiercely independent, but also, like struggle and work really hard for not a whole lot. And it sounds like you guyss, really did not grow up with things being easy. Yes, my parents did everything with no regard for themselves. Just like everything for me, my sister,. Like my my mam has always been that way, like a shav. Trying to ge my mam to do something for herself is very difficult. Andshe's like the best parent on the face of the earth. My dad is very similar to