How Do You Manage to Balance at All?

kelly sou is incredibly productive and successful. But that's just not what it feels like on the in. She says she has this thing where if i am not doing it all myself, i feel somehow as though i have like, failed at o. Got somebody helping with laundry, so i'm somehow a bad mom,. Or get annoyed cause things get put away in the kitchen and they're not where i want them. Like, well, you can have everything exactly where you want it, or you can have a job you love.