Inchiridian 20 offers some profound insight into what is up to us in the development of an excellent moral character. What injures you is not people who are rude or aggressive, but your opinion that they are injuring you. So whenever some one provokes you, be aware that the provocation really comes from your own judgment. Start then by trying not to get carried away by the impress once you pause and give yourself time,. You will more easily control yourself.