Shannon Corland: I'm doing too much at the same time. In New York City you can kind of take the slice that you're interested in and this just happens New York City happens to have the two slices that I'm I'm most interested in yeah. She says she'd like to focus more on physical and mental health because that's something that's dropped off but it's really important to know that people who are exceeding succeeding at something they're probably making some really hard sacrifices so don't do other things with your time. The writer is a self-confessed extrovert, an introvert and has written about how "having it all is a fantasy"