
How to talk with people that drive you mad (with a little help from grace)
Jesuitical
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Engaging in Healthy Conflict
i am pretty conflict averse, and would rather just avoid an argument if i can. If you engage in healthy conflict, you actually get closer to the person. You actually get to know them better. And so i lay out in the book, here's how you can engaging in healthy conflict. Here are some behaviors that you should absolutely avoid. Here some behaviors thatyou should adopt. I also talk a lot about the social science of how people change their minds - not through being shamed or accused but by having facts thrown at them. But i think there's a perspective on this idea of granting people more grace that is difficult to comprehend for someone who doesn't have any power.
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