Or maybe you're trying to get your kids to eat more vegetables, and you bring home pepperony pets

a. Or maybe you bring hom something that one year kids really doesn't like to eat, and so now she's going to be dealing with the temper tanch room. Or maybe she's stressed out about money, and you go home and bring a whole thing of chinese food instead of making a ten dollar meal from scratch at home, because you can't be bothered to figure i haw to cook. Yes, ye. So also, i'm sorry this this thing bothers me. Ok. This is the whole idea of spaces for men. It's like, wow, you get such a pat on the back for bringing home takeout.

You knowteis, if a woman brings home some freaking takeout, once in a while, she gets told, you didn't do enough. She gets told, haven't you thought about the budget? She gets told, but does there enough vegetables in that? What happens if a man brings home take out on the one freaking night that

he is supposed to

cook. A great husband, you

better reward him in bed, honey. Wow, what an amazing dod he can order a piza. What an amazing guy. He's got oper eats on his phone. What a fantastic dad. He wat a fantastic dad. Freaking does. He actually knows how to do things to take care of his kids.

Again, thereis nothing with

your job being to take to pick up piza on friday nights, if that's what youve decided. But this, this, and again, that might be great for timothy in america. I don't care about their couple. What i care about is the women who are drowning, because there's the everyone on a budget, ok? You can't afford to order in multiple times a week if you're a normal family. And so if the husband is in charge of one meal a week, and he gets to do the expensive one, what the freaking hack? Then she never gets to order in on her nights where she's supposed to cook. You know, we do in our family, whoever cooks the most nights that week gets to decide if we'regoing to order out or not. And the other person has to cook. So we do ok? Connor cooks on week ends, and i cook during during the week. And when we switch off for work, when conner's on and i'm working, then he, he cooks during the week, and he gets a sighte. If we order in on wednesdays and i cook on the week ends, ok, that's pretty darned fair. Not everyone has to do that, but the reason that we did that was because we understood that the mental load of ordering a piza is almost nothing rit there's no dishes, like, there's no decision n anan, remember too, like if someone orders in when

there's