"If we're honest with ourselves, and we drop the entitlement that everybody else is supposed to treat us in a certain way," he says. "You got to decide what it is you want, you got to go after it with all you have, and and be who you are all the time." 'I'm not here to share myself and contribute what i don't say,' adds Obeidallah of his life's work as an activist for social justice.'When i started living authentically who i am at all times, and i drop tha, drop the expectation if people need to believe what i say or lievein me,. my life got a lot less anxiety and easier