Doing it in a beautiful place is superimportant. Don't do it on the day you travel. Wake up and do it late morning. Toys, literally, like sparkly balls of kinetic sand are going to be your best friend once you kind of cross over. Just say yes to the weirdness. If it wants to gobble you up, let itgobble you up. And absolutely if there can be some one there watching you, taking care of you, theyes better. It's all about yes d and talk about it.
Semler (musician! new album Late Bloomer out now!) makes it weird!