"One of your biggest gifts is that you know how to be a jerk in the right way," he says. "It shakes people, like a lot of people going to rooms where there's just a lot of human respect." 'You don't walk in the room with the idea that everybody here must be doing it right,' Chris adds. "'If i can do it in humility, but i can't soften it so that you miss it.' That would not be good'