Ep 1272 | Your Self-Care Is Making You Weak: Therapist Drops Hard Truths | RaQuel Hopkins
Relatable with Allie Beth Stuckey
Emotional Rescuing and Validation Limits
RaQuel explains why not all emotions deserve validation and how to differentiate internal data from action.
Allie and licensed therapist RaQuel Hopkins dismantle today’s feel-good therapy culture. “Protect your peace” has produced fragile adults. RaQuel calls for optimization, not coddling. Tough love builds capacity; toxic empathy breeds victims. Reject self-obsession; embrace personal responsibility. Tune in for biblical clarity on emotions, resilience, and why your pain isn’t special — but God’s grace is.
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Timecodes:
(00:00) Intro
(03:30) Optimization
(11:50) Defining "Self-Care"
(14:05) Toxic Empathy
(17:25) Emotionally Rescuing Someone
(28:00) Defining "Capacity"
(34:50) Mental Illnesses
(39:30) Defining "Burn Out"
(42:00) Finding Fulfillment
(50:50) God Increases Your Capacity
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