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EPISODE DESCRIPTION: In this podcast I talk to therapist and author Whitney Goodman about her new book on toxic positivity, why good intentions are sometimes not good enough, and more! As Whitney notes in her new book, toxic positivity tends to shut down conversations, and often stops people from truly connecting—especially when it comes to the hard “stuff” we all face as we lives our lives. Even if someone is just trying to be nice by saying things like “everything happens for a reason” or “remember, the glass is half full”, the person sharing their pain and struggles can feel silenced by these seemingly innocuous platitudes. It can make the person struggling feel like their distress is making the other person uncomfortable or scared, which often feels like rejection.
Read the show blog here: https://drleaf.com/blogs/news/toxic-positivity-what-it-is-how-it-hurts-what-to-say-instead
Get her book here: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/673005/toxic-positivity-by-whitney-goodman/
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EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:
3:55 How toxic positivity can affect our relationships
4:30 Why good intentions are often not enough
6:00, 11:40 Why positive affirmations aren’t a “cure-all”
8:00, 20:00 Why we shouldn’t suppress uncomfortable emotions
14:30 Why the concept of toxic positivity has gone “viral”
16:20 How shame can affect our mental health
17:50 The dark side of self-improvement & self-help
24:00 How toxic positivity can show up in our communities
29:30 How to complain better
33:00 Why we can’t fix other people
35:20 Toxic positivity & feeling in control
38:00 Toxic positivity & motivational conferences
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