Understanding Unconditional Love

Unconditional love for me is like seeing the humanity in another and choosing to offer that part of them love, right? I think when the personality structure or the ego isn't getting its needs met, I think it's completely okay to have conditional love from that structure of our being. The attainment of higher consciousness and moving towards being an elevated loving being where you spend more of your time in love than you do in hate or judgment are two different kinds of unconditional love. That requires us to be able to let go of the firm grip we might have on our preferences from a psychological point of view.