The Empowerment Framework, Recognize and Validate Emotions

Ando: A lot of times, that desire that to over cmpensate, the ego, on his part, is because he like, i'm unfamiliar with the situation. And so if you would have approached it by saying, hey, no, this is my bench. I am the judge, then that would have been you trying to reclaim that power in that interaction by force. There was just no, there was no point. You did number one really well. Get curious with compassion and joint problem solving.