How Do You Deal With That When People Are Doubting You?

When approached the original assault or something like that? Yeah, being touched when I was asleep. So and I didn't really want anybody to go through that experience. When people are doubting you and saying we know our friend, what happens in your mind or what happens in the, in someone's mind in that situation? Just as I said, like we, it brings up like the feelings I originally felt of like guilt and shame because it's like, like, wow, this person did this thing to me that's actually horrible. But then once I clear my head, I'm like, I don't want this to happen to anybody else.