You know, seven year old. Good. With bacon is like, try it. Try it. Say I am.

I can't wait for that kid to be there when he's finally old enough to get over the, the like picky eating thing and the like the decision he's made without trying bacon, then he doesn't like it. And then he goes, I'm like, oh, my goodness. What was I doing? Right. And it's, and it's like that's so beautiful. So you know, if like, if life is about experiences, so much about experiences and like that's where that I did that episode, I think the end of the, of last year at some point, I'm here for all of it. Why that was very powerful and very helpful for me and why I wanted to share that with people is like, because that to me is a, is a way of being or a frequency of detachment. Because if we're attached, it has to be a certain way. And it's like this, like you said, the aversion, like, no, not that way. Not that way. Not that way. Don't, don't do that. Don't do it just like this. And it's like, I used to live my life that way where it was like, I don't want to rock the boat. And I think a people, a lot of people live their life that way is I'm trying to make the boat steady. And I'm trying to get life to be in equilibrium. Mm hmm. I don't want to cause a problem. I don't want drama here. I don't want. Don't go do that crazy thing. Don't go, don't go start a business. Don't go do that thing because we got to get the boat steady. And it's like, that's never going to happen because the meteor could hit your backyard tomorrow, having forbid, you know, like there's so much outside that we can't control. Obviously, like look around and turn on the news, right? So much of that. And so we are, it's like that default programming of let's control everything outside. So then I can be cool on the inside. And it's like, well, that's impossible. But as we know, we find if the boat is within, then we want to study the boat within no matter what the weather is or the water is doing outside.

That's interesting.