Is There a Flip Side to That?

I've found at least with people I've talked to and myself included, one of the hard things is to let go of the preconceived notions of what we think should be meaningful to us. Part of maybe figuring this out is letting go of all those preconceived notions and trying to figure out what actually speaks to you as a person. As a kid, we didn't have stuff like what we were poor. I grew up wanting stuff. What I learned though, fast forward 30 years, I had this thing in my head that said pursue money. It was not fulfilled by it. This is why in his own story last year, 2021 and June when his brother died, I changed.