Navigating Financial Compatibility in Relationships

We handed our entire life-savings to him.

In today’s episode, financial advisor Ryan Edelfson shares the #1 MONEY RULE he demanded we follow before he’d touch a single dollar — plus the exact habits that turn ordinary paychecks into passive wealth.

What you’ll learn:

▫️ The rule that lets you stock-pick guilt-free

▫️ How a 5-minute index-fund setup beats most day-traders long-term

▫️ The six-month emergency-fund formula that wipes out money anxiety

▫️ Ryan’s automation ladder: employer match → Roth → mega-backdoor Roth

▫️ Why one hidden childhood belief still dictates your spending — and how to rewrite it tonight

⏰ Timestamps

00:00 Intro – meet the Money Therapist

00:05 Why money feels like therapy

01:30 Childhood baggage & finance

04:11 Beginner step: 5-minute index-fund setup

06:24 “Play money” vs. core portfolio

08:24 Emergency fund: 6× monthly spend

08:55 Automation 101 – employer match = free money

09:36 Mega-backdoor Roth explained ($30 K tax-free)

10:35 High-yield savings: earn 4 % doing nothing

12:16 Diversifying with international & bond indexes

13:31 Intermediate goal: when work becomes optional

15:05 4 % rule math in plain English

16:40 Couples & money: shared-account playbook

18:15 The notebook audit: kill scarcity phrases

19:50 Ryan’s money lessons

21:33 Relationships: personal accounts vs. joint accounts

24:12 When and HOW to talk about finances during dating

25:45 Cherie's financial role play with Ryan

27:30 The person you marry is the most important financial decision

28:00 When to have the financial conversation

29:40 Would Jean be comfortable making more than her husband?

32:08 Pre-nup is a relationship killer?

33:33 Any financial red flags between Jean and her ex?

37:40 Deal or delusion: Ryan's hottest takes

40:00 Outro – like, comment, rate ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

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