The Importance of Masturbation in a Monogamous Relationship

"I think from a very, from the very beginning, we stay away from an ownership mentality in a marriage," she says. "The reality is that marriage is all about that because you've got two different people who are going to think differently" masturbation can be used as a wonderful way to deal with libido differences, Deal with erotic preference differences and situational things like pregnancies or illnesses where one of us isn't as sexually available as we are used to being. The idea that somehow if your behavior doesn't align with what I want, now it means that you don't love me, you don't prioritize me."