Is It a Mismash, or a Cyclical Thing?

With all of the self help and personal development models out there for growth, is there one that you like, or are you just ind of a free balling hero's journey type of fella? Well, i think, to your pointy, it's a mismash. I have to remember, like, for me, 12 step worked, and a most all 12 sep has a lot of its roots are pulled from from dern christianity. We start to judge more about the wrinkles we notice when we're in our 40s because we don't prize them as much as we should. And then conversely, maybe thi sounds paradoxical, but i don't think it