Gay men are in touch with their feelings too. They they understand their emotions more than, for example, straight men. Straight men might be er, a little bit more uncomfortable about discussing their feelings and prefer to play at an oplay station three or something. Ar, so the next thing is that howard again, it's all howard for some reason. And this time he said, am, it's a bit wishy washy. It's a bit wis washy. Now, he's talking about the book, and it's a criticism. If something is wishy wasHy, it means it's not very clear, it's unclear, it's imprecise