Are They Fighting or Playing?

I don't believe we're exceptional enough as a species sthat our concept of non borg like individual love is enough to bring them here. And along with that, if they were coming here and meant us evil, it's like if you see two dogs interacting, and you ask yourself, are they fighting or playing? You know they're playing. If aliens come here with that superiority and they have hostile intentions, we wouldn't know. Or maybe we wouldn't, because we'd be gone immediately,. They wouldn't really need to colonize us, or make us batteries or lhese the various nodistopian views of the aliens. So at least for me, it's comforting