The Third Category of Goals Is Personal Development

Make a list of the things you want. Now when you check off something major, celebrate. Celebrate your achievements. Live it up. Have a party. See we all grow from two experiences. One is called the pain of losing. The other one is called the joy of winning. Amplify them as much as you can. Which also means make losing painful. If you set up something fool around, didn't get it. Put it on yourself. On the other side, if you did get it, congratulate yourself. Seeking congratulations is a sign of immaturity. But hey, winning and losing. That's what it's all about. That's the name of the game.