Are You Trying to Change the Direction of Your Sex Life?

Am, i would say the smallest baby step would be to keep having missionary sex and then do something you don't normally do in that missionary sex. Ask your wife if she encourages you to have fun with strangers or does she want permission to cheat? Once again, adding a little bit of novel y, but starting from the place of comfort. Cause there's dufflin guys out there who feel that way.