Why Is My Heart Not Open to Listening?

In the chinese mandarin language, an, three characters make up the verb to listen. It's eyes, so we're giving the person we're listening to, ore eyes, our ears. And the last one is fascinating, open heart. So its making sure that i am giving my eyes, i am offering my ears, resisting distractions. But then also, my open heart is so key in the entire equation. If you're feeling that way now, do what gregg said, seek out a counsellor. Think of it as mechanic for your car. We have a problem. I need your experts. That's what you're doing when you talk to a councellor