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This chapter delves into the journey of embracing self-worth and confidence in relationships as women age. It highlights the importance of discerning between settling and finding the right partner while challenging societal norms around women's choices in love.

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Lisa Bilyeu sits down with actress, writer, and advocate Yvette Nicole Brown. Known for her iconic roles in "Community" and "Drake & Josh," Yvette brings her rich life experience and radiant authenticity to the table as she opens up about love, self-worth, and finding happiness on your own terms. Brown shares her journey from dreaming about marriage in her 20s to discovering real love at age 53, all while defying societal expectations around relationships, aging, and womanhood.

Lisa and Yvette dive into the pressures women face to settle, struggle with loneliness, and grieve unfulfilled dreams—while still holding space for hope and joy. Yvette reveals the lessons she learned through toxic relationships, the importance of self-love, and how to embrace your authentic self regardless of your relationship status. Tune in to hear a candid and powerful conversation about perseverance, purpose, and why every woman’s life is valuable, with or without a partner.

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00:00 Why women feel pressured to settle or fear being alone

00:26 Yvette’s approach to authenticity and self-acceptance

01:22 Why Yvette refused to settle or change herself to get a partner

03:09 Making peace with singleness and societal expectations

04:12 Grieving old dreams and redefining happiness

05:07 The reality of toxic relationships and lessons learned

07:06 Letting go of the dream of motherhood and finding new meaning

08:21 How Yvette cultivated self-love during years of being single

09:42 Holding space for complex feelings: "Happy for you, sad for me"

11:08 Early lessons on self-worth from childhood and Hollywood

12:19 Creating your own community when you don’t "fit in"