I never felt like anyone found me attractive when I was younger. No one really ever showed interest in me at all compared to all the other girls because I was pretty nerdy and I kind of like stuck to myself a little bit. Every time someone a new person shows you that it just reaffirms but it also pushes aside that belief that you have like I'm not lovable. It actually never really addresses it that's never gonna go away yeahIt's a bandage yeah bandage solution yeah and then it makes you more reliant on them as well which then makes the problem I guess kind of worseYeah absolutely because you're like shit I didn't actually work on myself a statement otherwise