How to Get Rid of a Gas Lighter

If it's a romantic relationship the question that we need to ask ourselves is can a gas lighter change? The short answer is no and the long answer is fuck. You are wasting your time with this person no matter how much you love them No matter how good it is on the good days. It's not because of you and you can't get them to change. Seek support from two kinds of people number one ideally Professional if you can afford it or even just a friend who will validate what was real and what actually wasn't real. If you're feeling isolated, finding a community of people that have gone through what you've gone through and come out the other end healed could be very valuable