Is Your Husband Intoxicated by You?

Many women who are abused end up blaming themselves and thinking that I'm the one who caused it. They also believe that if I act differently, I might be able to prevent it. So they're trying to control what all the other women around them and the girls around them dress like in the hopes that now maybe my husband will remain faithful to me. It's a false sense of control. But there's another side of it where you think if you have experienced abuse yourself we can try to protect other girls. This is also a false way of trying to protect young women. And this comes from really good place of trying to protection people.