
BHE 37 - Object Relations Daggers to the Heart [Part 2] - Courtney Smith
Big Hormone Enneagram
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Identifying With Four Is Like the Need to Individuate
The six has kind of conditioned him or herself to feel about themselves. There's like confusion that oh four is trying to Individuate so I have trouble with Individuation, I know I need to and so I must be a four Versus like the fourth thing is like I'm already an individual like it already happened um Yeah And I just think from like a relationship perspective like there's so many times in retrospect where like I gave way too Much authority to someone without them even if they were my friends. The eight kind of self sacrificing and and essthesizing themselves to hurt the six is basically Saying I'll do whatever it takes like you just but you be here I'm not Toxic
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