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The Male Brain and the Clingy Partner
A lot of men think it's just the chase and once they've got conquered, they no longer like the girl. The avoidant person always attracts the clingy because if a distant independent person met another distant independent woman, they don't have the glue to keep them together. They also don't feel validated by somebody who doesn't care to see them. But when they meet that clingy partner, they get the validation that I'm loved, but then they know they'll she'll love you and cling on to you regardless. So the clingy and the distant are always together. That dynamic of the guy with the girl, when he gets the girl, it's too suffocating,"