Happiness Is Learning Something New
In my work, it's not unusual for somebody to seek guidance. Most are contemplating a change or frustrated with the status quo.
Every conversation begins with me asking —
"What are you trying to figure out?"
To which people say, "I don't know, that's why I'm talking to you! I want to start over."
Now, there’s a funny thing about living inside of your own head for your entire life. You probably already know what you want and just won’t admit it.
Usually a combination of fear of change and FOMO, fear of missing out is driving your forward while locked in the same place.
If you find yourself stuck, you may find yourself thinking that you just want to toss everything out and start over.
Forget the fact that it’s not possible anyway. There is good reason not to start from scratch.
Remember all those years living inside your mind?
Somewhere inside of you, there is lots of experience and wisdom. Over the years, you paid a hefty price for that knowledge. Although it may sound like a good idea, not only should you never give up what you've learned. It's not like we have a Men In Black "Flashy Thing" to reformat the hard drive you call your mind.
A better way is to become an absolute beginner and learn a new skill, preferably with a mentor's help to show you the way while your previous experience guides you.
Sometimes, as you grow older, getting wiser requires going back to 1st Grade.
When you do, your brain uses its incredible plasticity and gets excited by learning something new. Then, it integrates it with what you already know. You are, in fact, a beginner and a Master at the same time. That creates excitement, motivation, and happiness, and we all can use more of that.
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