5min chapter

the matcha diaries cover image

for people pleasers only...

the matcha diaries

CHAPTER

Why Do We People Please?

"People please" can come in all the different stages of life, right? So for example, wanting to please your parents by picking a career choice that you know they would see as better. Another reason why we can people please is because of just low self-esteem and truly believing that your own opinions and desires are not valuable. "I feel this pressure to kind of always make sure that I'm being the person that my parents or siblings or partner or friends want me to be," she says.

00:00

Get the Snipd
podcast app

Unlock the knowledge in podcasts with the podcast player of the future.
App store bannerPlay store banner

AI-powered
podcast player

Listen to all your favourite podcasts with AI-powered features

Discover
highlights

Listen to the best highlights from the podcasts you love and dive into the full episode

Save any
moment

Hear something you like? Tap your headphones to save it with AI-generated key takeaways

Share
& Export

Send highlights to Twitter, WhatsApp or export them to Notion, Readwise & more

AI-powered
podcast player

Listen to all your favourite podcasts with AI-powered features

Discover
highlights

Listen to the best highlights from the podcasts you love and dive into the full episode