How predators weaponize shame

Andrew explains grooming tactics, induced shame, and how predators manipulate victims into compromise.

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You know those moments when your gut screams “he’s lying, ”but everyone else believes him? We break down the exact body language, tactics, and psychological games toxic men use to dodge accountability, gaslight victims, and control the narrative.

Today I’m joined by former CIA spy Andrew Bustamante, who teaches you how to spot deceit in real time, even when the world wants you to second-guess yourself.

We’re analyzing infamous interviews with Harvey Weinstein, Andrew Tate, and Prince Andrew. We dig into the truth behind the denials, and give YOU the tools to see through manipulation, reclaim your voice, and never shrink again.

Here’s exactly what we dive into:

How to “read” body language and spot deception instantly
The subtle cues that reveal when someone is building a story vs. recalling real memories
Tactical scripts used to invalidate women and re-write “the facts”
How to protect yourself (and your loved ones) from gaslighting, fraud, and emotional traps

Show Notes

Spotting Lies: Harvey Weinstein’s Denial and Gwyneth Paltrow’s Truth

Dismissing, Minimizing, and Gaslighting - Harvey’s Playbook

Ashley Judd’s Story: Vulnerability, Shame, and Escape

Breaking Down Weinstein’s Strategy: Avoid, Deflect, Repeat

Andrew Tate: Rehearsed Innocence, Narcissism, and Priming the Audience

The Patterns of Manipulation: Controlling, Diminishing, and Distracting

Prince Andrew’s Infamous Interview: Anchoring, Rehearsed Stories, and Deceit

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