Do you want to be the kind of person who allows other people to be their best selves, or not? What does your best self look like? I just think that it's not bad to consider these questions once in a while. That is something i have attempted to do most of my adult life. And it's hard. It's sometimes time consuming. It feels crappy. Sometimes it's a constant stance. We just keep coming back to the same idea: Who do you wants to be and what kind of a personYou want to be?