Re-release - How good people mess up their marriages with Matthew Fray
The Motherkind Podcast
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The Importance of Validation
Sally Kohn: Are there moments when you're coaching a man who might be on the brink of divorce or post divorce, where they particularly get that penny drop, aha moment? Have you noticed a pattern of that where they go, ah, I get it now. What is it that facilitates that? For me specifically, we've done it in this conversation a couple of times. We did it with validation and consideration. And then what that conclusion was that my wife ultimately learned that what that truly looks and feels like to her is, Matt has to agree with me. He has to agree that I'm allowed to think what I think in order for him to behave in
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