The Importance of Being in the Moment

I hear that's a really common theme with guys where it's like, if my dick doesn't function exactly how I want to all the time, means I'm not man enough. But as men in general, those who do talk about sex a bit, like it's all about ego. So I think we're quite ego driven that way. If something is on my mind, I am not going to work down there. My mind needs to be in it. It's still a work in progress in many ways because it's not just about tech. Like me as a person, like I need to stop putting back to a pressure on myself for anything that I like and hold in value