
Helping Joe, Episode 9
The Mating Grounds Podcast
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Are You Taking Newcomers?
Dating is not pass or fail, it's a binary thing. There are whole levels of successes and failures that depend on the context. Everything is essentially an opportunity to learn how to get better. In Jiu Jitsu, they're saying there's no losing. There's only winning and learning. So either you're getting what you want or you're learning how to adapt and to get that. The point isn't that you can meet chicks and do well. The point is that you've got to pick the chicks that you wanted to talk to.
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