I brought my kids to New York for this, right? And we get here yesterday and it's pouring rain. So quality time in some ways is almost this cop out because it's in the future. A garbage time is right now. Every minute can be quality time. We think of planning the vacation, but the drive to the airport is also part of the trip. If you're stressed and miserable and you're rushing through it, you're giving up what is extraordinary and wonderful.