Why Separate Conversations and Line Up Money First

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 The real estate world is a sphere of endless opportunities, yet financing often stands as the primary barrier for both new and seasoned investors. While traditional bank loans have long been the go-to option, they come with their fair share of hurdles and red tape. Enter private money—a game-changing concept that's revolutionizing how deals are funded and executed. 

In a recent enlightening episode on the Raisig Private Money podcast, Jay Conner joins Bola Alabi on The Career Evangelist Podcast and shares his invaluable insights on harnessing the potential of private money to transform the way you invest in real estate.

Why Consider Private Money?

Jay Conner's journey into private money began from a place of necessity when his bank unexpectedly cut off his line of credit. Finding himself in a predicament with two deals under contract and no funding, Conner asked a crucial question: "Who do you know that can help you with your problem?" This led him to discover private money through a fellow investor, Jeff Blankenship. Unlike traditional loans that often require personal guarantees and creaking through endless bank procedures, private money is sourced from individuals looking to invest their capital or retirement funds in real estate for attractive returns.

The beauty of private money lies in its flexibility and accessibility. Whether you aim to purchase single-family homes, commercial buildings, or apartments, the structure remains consistent. The process is less about convincing hard money lenders and more about creating mutually beneficial relationships with people eager to see their money grow.

The Role of Education and Relationship Building

Jay emphasizes the importance of educating potential lenders and establishing trust as fundamental to raising private money. His approach involves putting on his "teacher hat" rather than pitching deals out of desperation. By clearly explaining the investment opportunity, the security of their funds, and the expected returns, Jay reframes private lending from a transactional agreement to an educational and collaborative partnership. This helps in fostering long-term relationships where lenders are comfortable and eager to participate in future projects.

To illustrate, Jay has developed a network of 47 private lenders, none of whom knew about private money until he explained it. His ability to attract constant investment is rooted in being transparent and providing sound knowledge about private lending, ensuring that both sides of the table feel informed and secure.

Strategies for Success

One of the standout strategies Jay shared on the podcast is the benefit of having funds ready before contracting a deal. This involves separating the conversations about lending opportunities and specific deals, thus allowing investors to feel prepared and confident when entering negotiations. Unlike the conventional wisdom that suggests getting a deal and hoping for the funds to materialize, Jay insists on the contrary—having a financial plan beforehand empowers investors to act swiftly and assuredly.

Moreover, he suggests structuring deals with flexibility in mind, such as offering interest-only payments, allowing lenders to earn consistently without reducing your cash flow during the holding period. This pragmatic approach to investor relations underscores Jay's philosophy of leading with a servant’s heart and adds an appealing layer of security for lenders.

Conclusion

Jay Conner's journey and expert