How to Skip the Step of Experience

I'm actually very interested in the notion of time and how we can skip around in time I'm writing about that right now but that's not really your question so you know experience teaches it right. When you have that experience when you get in that toxic relationship a little bell will start ringing and you'll be able to carve out this much distance from it. If you've read books or if you've gone to therapy and people have people have said they feel better after going through their own experiences, then there is hope for us all. We're walking around blind and I was that way when I was 21 22 believe me we don't really know what things but if we've read something beforehand