The author says when people get into social friction, they immediately create two stories. One is that they are a victim, and the other person is a villainga first a. When we take that disempowering narrative on whatever's happened in your life, then yet, you can often make yourself a victim and make the other person a villain. That emotional stress will need to be neutralized in some way, in some form.

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