How Can We Stop Sailing Ships Without Inventing the Ship Wreck?

I remember reading lots of scandalous articles about gosh the swiping at Tinder that's the one when it first came out saying how everyone was just going to be having sex everywhere now and it was terrible. You almost can't find a technology where people didn't freak out there's a wonderful website that my friend Jason Freeman we maintain called pessimist archive which documents all these archives of people freaking out over teddy bears. I'm not an apologist for technology that you know there are there are negative repercussions as Paul Verilio brilliantly said he said you can't invent the ship without inventing the ship wreck, right? There are problems with every new technology but the solution is not to