The Pluralist Mind Set

The pluralist realizes that all groups and societies see it as their mandate to mould the minds and hearts of their members. The mind is seen as completely contingent on historical context, geographic place, economic circumstance,. education, the structure of society, culture, media, advertising and language. So how do i break free of this brain washing when even the books that i am reading are just more brain washing? When i go by a book about how to un brain wash myself that book itself is the brain washing that i have tounbrain wash myself from.