How to Fix Your Erection

A lot of heterosexual couples get in trouble because as women, we are taught mostly to go along with what's happening and try to make the best of it. And men, for the most part, are taught that they're supposed to know what to do and never ask for directions. "If I'm going to be touching you for you, I need to find out what you want," says Jasongaddus. The Wheel of Consent distinguishes between when I'm touching you, am I touching you the way you want or am I touchingyou the way I want?"