What Is the Meaning Behind the Resistance?

There's probably some truth that the guy isn't doing it the way she needs. And then she turns towards the vibrator to orgasm. There is a rejection, as a message that he's failing, when she goes to the vibrator. So if that feels bad, how about we just listen to that bad feeling that the guys having and have a conversation around that? It's no big deal. Wel w, what's being triggered inside of him is actually a pretty big deal. How are we going to talk about that?