Sally Kohn: I remember hearing Paul Bloom, one of my advisors and our former guests here on the show, talking about... He had two sons who were in there like four or five. The other one was about eight or nine. And he would always be saying things like, oh, I got to do this or oh, my kid did that. At some point, after a year or two, I asked him. So Paul, it sounds like having kids is actually a bad thing. You seem to always be talking about what horrible experience you're having with kids. But he looks at me sort of shocked and said, no, it's absolutely the best decision I've ever